The Magic Room: A Story about the Love We Wish for Our Daughters

The Magic Room: A Story About the Love We Wish for Our DaughtersThe Magic Room: A Story About the Love We Wish for Our Daughters by Jeffrey Zaslow

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I LOVED this book – from the Introduction to the very last Acknowledgments page. Zaslow was a gifted writer, weaving people’s stories into factual information about the wedding industry and our culture. Does that sound boring? His book was not boring, not at all!

Zaslow, a Wall Street Journal columnist, chose Becker’s Bridal for his setting which is located in the rural town of Fowler, MI and has been in business since 1899. He spent more than a year interviewing brides, researching their stories, finding what led them to Becker’s, its family owned business and its Magic Room – a former bank vault surrounded by floor to ceiling mirrors where brides are invited when they think they’ve found “the dress.” Each bride’s journey to Becker’s is different, some spanning years due to personal circumstances. Their journeys bring us stories of strong women!

What kind of love does Zaslow wish for our/his daughters? Love that shares and gives. Marriage that is a partnership; a spouse who is an ally and a teammate.

It’s so sad that he will not have “a chance to be a father of the bride.”

This is a good book club selection.


Highest Duty: My Search for What Really Matters

Highest Duty: My Search for What Really MattersHighest Duty: My Search for What Really Matters by Chesley B. Sullenberger

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

A thoroughly enjoyable and inspiring book, I could sense the guidance of writer Jeffrey Zaslow throughout this amazing story of the life of pilot Chesley Sullenberger who landed U.S. Air flight 1549 in the Hudson River on a very cold January afternoon.

Undoubtedly, everything in Sully’s past helped prepare him for what could have been a disastrous bird strike and subsequent successful landing.

Glider Training He discounts his training as a glider pilot, noting instead that he relied on energy management, using the energy of the Airbus, without the function of either engine, to land safely. I still say his glider training must have helped. 🙂

Crash Site Investigation Definitely, his history of studying aviation accidents and reviewing an experimental “ditching” exercise from 1944 in the James River, and volunteering as a crash site investigator gave Sully tips (“procedural guidelines”) that he used just before his landing in the river.

Aircrew Ejection Study Something else that was critical to the safe landing of the aircraft was Sully’s fast decision to sacrifice the airplane for saving lives. Sully mentions an aircrew ejection study which examined why pilots waited too long (or never) to eject from their planes. The study found that pilots often tried to fix the unfixable. Sully’s flight was a little over 5 minutes – he says, “I had never forgotten the aircrew ejection study I had learned about in my military days. Why did pilots wait too long before ejecting from planes that were about to crash?…The answer is that many doomed pilots feared retribution if they lost multimillion-dollar jets. And so they remained determined to try to save the airplane, often with disastrous results.” Sully did not have the luxury of time, nor altitude. His disaster was looming and he “chose not to” worry about being questioned by superiors and investigators.

Home for Christmas

Home for ChristmasHome for Christmas by Andrew M. Greeley

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

My dad recommended this to me a few years ago!

I just re-read this in preparation for a readers advisory Holiday Book Discussion program. I couldn’t quite remember why this short, delightful story is one of my favorite Christmas books. There’s love and romance, reality, a cover-up, war and battles, and a gracious Medal of Honor acceptance speech on pages 164-165.

This book covers Peter Patrick Kane’s life from second grade on to life in the military where he is injured three times, badly enough to be awarded Purple Heart medals. His third injury sends him to a meeting with God who has a couple of things he wants Petey to accomplish.

The Catholic priest who plays a role in this book is the kind of pastor we all wish our parishes could have and keep! He is full of personality, reason, deep faith and wisdom.